When Someone in Your Life Feels Negative: How to Stay in Your Light

Klodiana Alaj
Jul 27
2 min read

There are moments when someone you care about is caught in their own storm. Their words are heavy, their energy feels dense, and suddenly you notice your own calm beginning to sway.

In these moments, the most powerful thing you can do isn’t to fix them or change them. It’s to stay rooted in your own light.

1. Your Energy is Your Offering

When someone is negative, they are far from their own center. If you join them in the storm, you cannot guide them back to calm waters. But when you stay steady in your peace, you quietly remind them of their own.Your alignment is the greatest gift you can give.

2. Don’t Carry Their Vibration

It’s easy to absorb other people’s moods, especially when you love them. But their energy is not yours to hold. Imagine yourself as a tree: their storm may pass through, but you stay rooted, grounded in your own being.

3. Choose Appreciation Over Resistance

When their words feel heavy, your mind will want to resist: Why are they like this? Why can’t they be positive?But resistance feeds the storm. Appreciation dissolves it. Find one thing — anything — to love about them, or even about the moment. Appreciation is a bridge that pulls you (and sometimes them) back into calm.

4. Space Can Be Sacred

You are allowed to step away. Protecting your own vibration is not selfish; it’s self-alignment. Sometimes distance creates the space for both of you to reset and return lighter.

5. Be the Quiet Example

People feel energy more than words. When you stay soft, steady, and joyful without trying to change them, you show them another way of being. That quiet example often speaks louder than any advice.